Tributes

It is with heavy hearts that we come to terms with the loss of our brother. Saying goodbye to Ledama feels unreal, and the silence left behind is deeply felt. He was a remarkable soul whose presence brought strength, laughter, and depth to our lives.

Our time together as brothers was filled with moments we will always treasure. We would sit and talk endlessly — sharing stories, exchanging views on politics, and laughing over fashion and style. Those conversations were more than just talk; they were lessons, reflections, and memories that now live on through us.

You had a rare way of bringing people together, making everyone feel heard and valued. Through your words, your character, and your spirit, you shaped who we are today.

You leave behind a lasting legacy, one carried in our memories, our conversations, and our hearts.

Rest peacefully until we meet again…

We can't believe our big brother is truly gone. We have lost someone so special far too soon. Ledama was one of a kind and loved by everyone. You were more than a brother — you were a guiding light, a loyal friend, and an irreplaceable presence in our lives.

Although he was our big brother, he never made us feel left out. In fact, he would often take us along with him and his friends whenever they got into mischief. It was exciting for us to be included by the brother we looked up to — the "cool one" in our eyes.

You leave behind a beautiful legacy, one that we will forever cherish and keep alive.

Rest well until we meet again…

Good morning / Good afternoon,

My name is Shamiez, the first-born of Paul Ledama Sekento, my dad. It has been incredibly difficult for me to write this, or even to accept the fact that you are gone. When Mum broke the news, I bawled my eyes out, not knowing what to say or how to accept that I would never hear your voice again.

The past few days have been extremely hard. Losing a dad at such a young age is unbearable, and I will miss you forever.

You were very secretive about what you were going through, especially your heart condition. You would call me after your hospital appointments and tell me you were done. When I asked what the doctors had said, you would reply, "Achana nayo mami, siwezi kukuambia, but niko sawa."

I was always afraid that a day like this would come. Your greatest wish was for me to meet my younger brother, and I know that would have made you so happy.

Everyone knew how much you loved me, but I believe God had His own reason for taking you. Though it won't be easy, I will try my best to stay strong—for you.

I still can't believe that we said our last goodbye that night. The last words you said to me were, "I love you, Sham."

Dad, why did you leave so soon? We had so many plans for the future. It hurts knowing I will have to experience them without you.

I miss you, Dad, and I will love you forever.

May your sweet heart rest in peace in heaven.

Dad,

I miss you so much.

I will miss our drives together and how you always let me sit close. You always said you would teach me how to drive just like you one day. I miss talking about cars—you made me love them too.

I will miss our special dates, going to Pizza Inn because I loved it, and walking around the mall together. Those were my favourite days.

I will miss talking to you on the phone for a long time. Even when we were apart, hearing your voice made me feel happy and safe. You always listened to me and made me feel important.

Dad, you were my best friend. I will always remember you, and I will always love you.

Rest well, Dad.

Love, Kantet.

Ledama, still feels so surreal that you're no longer with us.

You were a kind and gentle soul. Your compassionate and caring nature touched lives without discrimination. You cared deeply… even when your own health was compromised, you still checked on others with genuine concern, asking them to take good care of themselves.

One occasion that still lingers, is during the recent Christmas celebrations when you confided in some of us that you didn't want to burden the family with your health challenges since every family was experiencing challenges of their own. Oh Ledama, if only you realized how much we cared! Your life mattered just as much.

You were very respectful, as attested by both young and old. You valued family and friendship.

Even as we lay you to rest today, we shall always treasure the memorable life that we shared with you.

Rest cousin, rest well…